when i got it, i was a little leary of it but the straps and the verstility of it ment alot since i haven't had one that i liked i though, it sounds weird but it doesn't smell chemicalish like alot of the harnesses do. It didn't dig in either like alot do to the hip. im going to get another one in the future and i got one for a friend of mine and she reeeally enjoys it with her partner, this is their first strap on so, they will be back to your store to get it. - its soft, no jagged edges, and adustuable